Sex Toys Togetherness - A Sex Toy For You And Your Partner
Many couples have found that adult toys are a good way to keep their sex lives new and exciting. Usually there is no problem introducing a sex toy into a relationship. Partners are often aware of what the other person would or would not be into trying.
Unless your partner has a specific aversion to sex toys, they'll probably be willing to at least try one out. You always want to approach the subject openly, honestly and in a positive way. Communication is the best way to prevent any misunderstandings or hurt feelings. Start by asking if they have ever thought about using a sex toy. If you are unsure how they'll react, it's a good idea to bring all this up before you buy a toy. Surprising your partner with your new sex toy might be fine, but it might not be a good idea if they're not as open to the idea as you are. Use your judgment - it is always better to err on the side of caution.
If your partner is open to the idea of using a sex toy, you can start by browsing sex toy catalogs with them. Explore the categories together and find out what interests them, and what interests you. It might be a learning experience for both of you. Starting with an online catalog or a printed catalog is better than bringing your partner to the local sex toy shop. Browsing online or in the privacy of your own home is much less stressful for the uninitiated than cruising the isles of the local sex shop.
Once you have an idea of what interests both of you separately, you will likely have a good idea which toy you want to try together. Is there one particular toy that appeals to both of you? Did your partner find something that he or she would like for themselves? Once you've both seen what is available you will likely have a good idea where to go from there.
Just remember that using a sex toy with a partner should be mutually satisfying. If you find something your partner absolutely hates, you probably would be best using it by yourself, and finding another toy to use together.