Sex Toy Advice For Couples - Introducing Sex Toys Into Your Relationship
The best way to introduce a sex toy into a relationship
Start slow: Save the double dong or strap-on dildo sex toy for future encounters. Try a nice, simple sex toy, such as a vibrator, after fully having discussed including a sex toy in your sex play with your partner. Once your sweetie is used to the vibe, you can trade up.
Be gentle: Your partner may like it on the rough side, but hold back a little the first few times you play with sex toys. There's plenty of time to accelerate!
Communicate: Talk to your partner. He or she may have agreed to use the sex toy, but that doesn't mean your lover is 100% comfortable with the idea. Talk your way through the experience. Ask your partner if what you are doing together feels good. If it doesn't, try something else.
Use lubrication: Sex toys need lots of lube to slip and slide the way the sex toy should. The last thing your girlfriend needs to worry about is whether she's wet enough to enjoy herself. Similarly, you don't want to risk injury to male or female partners by inserting something into a dry orifice. Keep a bottle of lube handy and use it.
Be flexible: The sex toy you've selected might turn out to be totally wrong for your sexual personalities. That's okay. Put that sex toy aside and try something different.
Be patient: Your partner may agree to play with the sex toy, and then change his or her mind midway through the experience. That's his or her prerogative. Be patient and try again another time. It might take awhile, but it will be worth the wait.